"im 13 i know im too young to be having sex, but im with a boy that i love dearly and trust and we always use protection, exept for once. now i might be pregnant. Im not worried about having to take care of my child or give birth to it, but i wanted to wait untill i finished collage and started a carrer in the fashion design business before having kids. the only thing im worried about is not being able to reach my goals of living the life my dad didnn't and never thought i could. ive been trying to proove him wrong all my life, and if i have a child now, the chances that i will even beable to finish highschool are slim. and that is the lst thing in the wold i want to do. im ready to be a mother. i would even like to if i could do it wile still being able to reach my dreams. but that would be nearly impossible.
much luv
linz "

"How rude of you to make such a comment to the lady who started this thread. That really is quite cruel to be so vicious towards someone who has been unable to become pregnant through no fault of her own.

With an attitude like that it is quite clear that you are nowhere near being mature enough to be having sex or having babies.

I honestly cant get over the attitude that has come from your comment.

I am 26 and have 2 children of 11 and 9, and believe me, yes it has been a worry, and I have had some difficult times, but at the same time I can understand where the lady is coming from, I am very blessed to have had this experience, and will ALWAYS appreciate what I have and how lucky I am.

Its great that the lady has adopted, but at the same time it must be hard to come on here and find people harping on and moaning about there concerns with being pregnant, when there's people out there who will never get the chance to be.

So please grow up, and think before you speak, because clearly you are not educated enough to be posting on such a site"

"Sorry to hear about your cancer diagnosis - but this is a pregnancy site, and that means that people are going to be talking about worries, fears, and even more unpleasant aspects of pregnancy. Perhaps if people expressing their fears and doubts upsets you, you shouldn't be reading a pregnancy site."

"While I agree that there is way too much casual sex between irresponsible partners people have a right to be worried if they are pregnant. I am an adopted child of a person who had a baby right after she turned 14. I am very thankful that I had well educated loving and mature parents who adopted and raised me. I also am a married parent of two. My sons are 10 and 7 and my husband had a vasectomy 3 years ago because 2 children frankly, was all we could afford to send to college. Here I am at 33 and 2 weeks late. I am WORRIED that I might be pregnant because this is not in our plans and my husband and I didn't want more than two children. Children are a huge financial responsibility as well as being a life long committment. I'm a director for a child care center and I don't want to play the "baby game" full time again. I love children and I love my children and I don't want to take away from them emotionally, financially, or time-wise. I'm sorry you have not been able to have children but that does not mean that the rest of us don't have the right to "worry" about whether or not we are pregnant."