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confusedteen1 |
Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 19 2010, 1:40 PM EDT
| Post edited: Jul 19 2010, 2:12 PM EDT
I love jake he's everything to me. When he's not around I feel almost a little depressed well tbh really depressed but I put on a brave face at least. I have spent over half my life with him even though I'm only 16. I honestly don't remember my life without him. And I don't know what I'd really do if he broke up with me because I wanted to have his son. There aren't many guys I really liked besides him. I told him today I was 4 months pregnant. His response was I had to get an abortion. No other option would he even let me talk about or consider. He wouldn't dare support us having a kid together. I want to have his son but I don't want to do it alone. And I don't want an abortion I'm like too far along. I know my parents won't be supportive either. I wish I would've just told him sooner then I wouldn't feel so attached. But what are you guy's thoughts and opinions just want to know from an outside source?And about now I feel pretty bad about because like the more I hear from people who have had abortions the more I think I don't want to go through with this but there's really no one helping me in this either. Do you find this valuable?
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dolphino |
1. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 20 2010, 10:11 AM EDT
dear, 1st of all just realize the fact that its way too late to have an abortion........u cant have it unless u risk ur life...........u will have to suck in thus reality.........secondly, i will want u to tell dis to ur bf as well...........tell him how it can put ur life in danger.if he lovres u enuf he will understand and wont wana loose him....thirdly sweetie believe me or not, ur parents will help u if not support u all along..........ur mum wil neva leave u alone in this condition.........talk to them asap and see if dey can tell u ways to have a betta future with baby n bf......
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confusedteen1 |
2. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 23 2010, 12:52 PM EDT
I looked it up and actually it goes up to 24 weeks at my nearby clinic. The other thing is I looked it up and it is risky but not life endangering from what I looked up. And also I talked to my mom and she wasn't supportive either of it.
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dolphino |
3. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 23 2010, 1:41 PM EDT
so u mean they can abort till 6 months............?
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bloodytears93 |
4. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 29 2010, 2:08 AM EDT
im 17 and pregnant aswel but only a month .....i wil never abort because wel i see it as killing another life ...but dont you feel like if ur bf loved u he would never asked u to go for a abortion and rather help u tru this and help u seek help and maybe u need to tel ur parents but i realy cant say that to u because i havent yet,i dont no wat im waiting for ....but i cant realy tel u wat to do but if i wear u i would keep the baby ,there are loads of teens that are singel moms and there babys are there joy of there lifes
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chinwe4cent |
5. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Jul 29 2010, 6:05 AM EDT
No matter what he says, you shouldnt. Now this is going to be hard but its the right thing to do. You are already in the second trimester and anything you do will be fatal. You cant even consider an abortion under anaesthetic because you are still going to have respiratory complications during the process. I've been down that road SIX times( believe it or not) and so I know. The last abortion I almost died and the next time I didnt even give it a thought and gave birth to my son nine months after. He's five years old today and in first grade. You both made the mistake together and if he knew he could never end up with you, then he shouldnt have been having sex with you and without a condom too! Let him be if he doesnt stick with you but just go ahead and do the right thing. God bless you.
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confusedteen1 |
6. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Aug 30 2010, 11:57 PM EDT
"No matter what he says, you shouldnt. Now this is going to be hard but its the right thing to do. You are already in the second trimester and anything you do will be fatal. You cant even consider an abortion under anaesthetic because you are still going to have respiratory complications during the process. I've been down that road SIX times( believe it or not) and so I know. The last abortion I almost died and the next time I didnt even give it a thought and gave birth to my son nine months after. He's five years old today and in first grade. You both made the mistake together and if he knew he could never end up with you, then he shouldnt have been having sex with you and without a condom too! Let him be if he doesnt stick with you but just go ahead and do the right thing. God bless you."we used protection and I was on birth control but we were meant to have this baby I guess. Well he's 1 week now and glad I kept him :) Do you find this valuable? |
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amandaleigh89 |
7. RE: Should I get an abortion because my boyfriend wants me to?
Nov 7 2010, 2:36 AM EST
your parents will come around dont worry and untill your baby is born your bf will say he dont want it but its likely that as soon as he holds his baby things will change..... like all men they have to adapt and most do our baby girl was a suprise and my hubby was a bit unsure at first but it all changed when she was born because he could hold touch and talk to his new baby it does all change and if it doesnt work out you know he wasn't the one but good luck hunnie being a mum is hard work but its worth every minute your with your baby :)
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